Family and ties withing and beyond

I recently realiced There was a reply to my reply in one of Ramonnas blogs.
I could have written a rpely there but I thing I simply write a blog post about it instead.

The reply was along the lines of me still having my claws out since some people deserved to have their heads torn off and shoved up their asses.
Had they been from the local area in Sweden I am from I could simply have put it that "Jag ska bygga om dig till en blomma."
Translate it if you want to and it will only surprise you since you need to be local to get it.

Anyway the thing of it tho is simple.
Whenever someone thinks he or she can break our family steal a slave from mistress convince a slave to leave or in any way try to break us apart I intend to hurt that person as much as I can.
While on SL hurting can be troublesome but things can still be done.
The IRL equivalent would be to do horrible things to the anatomy of said person.

So to allthose trying to hurt my SL family you should know that trying to break ou ties it the same as asking to have a ton of bricks dropped upon you.

Slave-Dominant

Was thinking about some things recently.
IRL the slave is controlling the realtionship between the sub and the Dom.
But internet is another matter.
The decicions in a reltionship here is an agreement between Dom and sub.
Then there is the "no limit" ones that usually in the end realice they do have limits.

However this is about an entirely different matter all together.
This morning I spent some time with my Mistress and some other of her slaves and friends.
During this some slaves tried to demand attention while we where all jus taking it easy.
At then it was me my mistress and a dear friend of us (Yes Viv I am talking about you)
Others had gone to work bed or just poofed not having enough "play" (they asked permission to go tho)
My Mistress seemed a bit worried I hadn't gotten to play wich surprised me.
I guess it is not common but I am as happy going around with Mistress when she is taking care of rental buisness as I am when she is blindfolding and gagging me forcing me to serve while deprived of my senses.
I would like as much sitting curled against her legs while she slowly strokes my hair as spread between two post whipped senseless for humiliating mistress at a social gathering.

In the end I love being wityh my mistress no matter what.
(And I did like this mornign since she had me dressed in latex and I look sooooo sezzy then)

So this is mostly a comment on "high-maintenance" slaves.
Or in other words the slaves demanding attention all the time.
Thei way to show up and more or less (in other words tho) claim. "Here I am punish me"
wich more or less is the same as "Here I am Mistress now drop everything you're doing and pay attention to me Me ME MEEEE!"

I am quite doubtful to this behaviour.
"Hi mistress entertain me."

"Hi mistress make me have fun."

"Hi mistress use your time for my benefit."

"Hi mistress buy me a lot of new gear and then punish me this and that way for me doing this and that then."

This is SL and not IRL and not even IRL would anyone stand for this behaviour.
Something efery slave would consider is the following...
Are your Dom having fun?
And if the Dom is not havign fun why does he/she put up with you?
And how long will the dom put up with you.

Make sure your Dom is having fun too.
The Dominant is not there for your amusement only.
The Dom is not your home entertainment center.
The Dom is a living breathing person expecting something out of the time with you and always expecting something is quite greedy and in some cases mean.

Give and take.

PS. But do tell your Dom things you enjoy/dislike too. Communication is important. DS

PPS. Ok I suck at communication bt that doesnt mean I can't give advice about it. DDS

Kelly Walcott

Mistress partner Kelly Walcott has recently been erased from Second Life.
As usual Lindens didn't even give an explanation.
One day there the other day gone.
She does not even show up on search anymore.

While me and Kelly has not always gotten along (I've even tried my best to hate her (yes tried but shes so nice so I ouldn't manage more than dislike)) I will confess I am going to miss her.

She will probably come back as an alt...
or at least I hope so.

Its still not the same.
Kally was unique. And while the player is the same on an alt... how do you replace all time pend on making an avatar special.
The money put into it is one thing.
But the time customising things and the chanse to find some items (what if the creator gave up and left SL?) again is impossible to measure in value.



Basicvally this problem is all due to the Lindens as usual.
However I have a solution.
None of this problem will happen if all employees follow this simple rule:

SHUT UP, SIT DOWN AND DON'T TOUCH ANYTHING!
YOU'LL TAKE CARE OF THE SERVERS AND KEEP OUT OF THE WORLD ITSELF.

There. Now include those lines in the Linden Labs Employee manual and we will all be fine.

BTW If you find I've suddenly been deleted it's probably due of this post.